I have always been a bath kinda girl. Showers are nice, but if I have a choice between the two I will always pick a soak in the tub, even for just a 5 minute dip. Bubble baths and all of the scented accessories are nice, but not remotely necessary* for me. Just give me scalding hot water, a little bit of quiet and preferably a good book for my idea of bliss.
As I am working on “getting my groove back” bath time has taken on double duty. I’ve scrapped the book and have been working my way through our collection of waterproof vibes and bath toys. Which brings me to the subject line – Eff Yeah, Vibrating Sponge. Over the last week we have become the best of friends. Mr/s Sponge here has an incredibly firm core that amplifies the vibrations from the silver bullet hidden under the strap. The wide area of vibration I find to be at first soothing, then arousing. With some firm pressure on your erogenous zone of choice the soft external layer offers wide spread stimulation. It’s a nice buzz against my vulva, enough to get me excited but not enough to finish the job, so when I’m ready for an orgasm I pop the bullet out for direct stimulation against the head of my clit. I am pleased to report this has yet to fail me.
Then in my post orgasmic buzz I side the bullet back into the sponge for the rest of my body. My muscles are never as relaxed as they are right after I’ve gotten off, so the vibration on my neck, shoulders, calves and feet truly does wonders. The hand strap that doubles as vibe cover comes in “handy” (Yeah I know, that pun is pretty terrible.) for keeping it in place when you’re all post-O clumsy or have problems with grip.
We also have a Mesh version of the Vibrating Sponge. Honestly, I’m not as much of a fan. The bullet is more difficult to remove, and vibration just doesn’t transfer as well with a mesh material. Proof that every body likes something different I have a few clients who adore it for the massage aspect though, so it is certainly worth checking out.
*Personal story time. I can pin point the moment when I knew that I needed to marry Mr Sex Geek. We were having a day fraught with personal drama and heartache when he disappeared for a while. I was slightly annoyed at first, but minutes later he took me down the hallway to find the bathroom done up like you normally only see in Valentines Day commercials. Steaming bubbles, candles, body scrub..the whole nine yards. Until it was done for me I always thought the concept was slightly cliche. So readers, take note. Romantic baths work!
About PSG/Crista AnneCrista Anne is a Progressive Pleasurist, Executive Director of Dildology.org and Sex-Postive Parent with her Partner In Everything - X. Valentine Orenda. She loves sleep, coffee, rainbow hued anything and her beloved Green Bay Packers.
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